Friday, September 30, 2011
September 30, 1941
Up qt 7:00. Ate. To school. Had some fun today.Went down to the furnace room and talked to Tadpole.(current boyfriend) Edyth went along. Silly. Had a ball game after school at Beaver Dam We won 6to8. Good game after supper Mary A. and I went with Gib A. and Red W. Tony P. to Mentone. Knocked on doors and asked how to find Burket. (they all knew how to find Burket). More fun. Came home. Washed and fixed hair. To bed.
Sunday, September 11, 2011
My fondest memories from childhood are similar to my brother, Larry's. Home-made cherry pie, grocery store right across the street, their dog Skippy with the constant oil streak on his back from sleeping under the car, outhouse for 'day use' and chamber pot for 'night use', large yard where we kids could play, and of course, the active train tracks within a stone's throw. Aunt Ina Mae was always so 'kid friendly' - very tolerant, patient, and caring.
Monday, September 5, 2011
From cousin Larry Rapp
Aunt Ina Mae
Oh, yes.., I remember my Aunt Ina Mae. I was born just about the time this picture was taken… back in 1947. My dad told my brother and sister and I she was our “Aunt Ina Mae”…. But most other folks knew her as Count. I guess he used to call his sister Ina Mae back on the farm when they were kids.
Some of the things I remember best about my Aunt Ina Mae include:
· She had a cherry tree in her backyard. And she made this delicious cherry pie. She came to know that I loved that cherry pie. When we would come down from Michigan for a visit, she always fixed me up with some cherry pie. It will always be the best I have ever tasted.
· The Nickel Plate Road ran right by Count and Shorty’s house. When I was a kid, I loved watching the steam engines chug by. I didn’t like the outdoor loo that much, though.
· Aunt Ina Mae and Aunt Anna always sent us kids a Christmas Package…. And she never forgot to send me a birthday card. I think she sent them to all of us.
· She introduced me to my Rapp family genealogy. She had lots of old pictures…. And never tired of telling me who was in them. Later, she hooked me up with my cousin Jim…. After which I traveled to Wittenberg, PA to find the house and grave of my great-great-great grandfather George.
· Of greatest distinction, she showed her kind heart by caring for her dying sister Anna for the final months of her life.
Thank you for everything Aunt Ina Mae. I loved you. Larry Rapp
Saturday, September 3, 2011
A tribute to Count
Count never traveled very far from home. She did not seem to need anything beyond Northern Indiana or Southern Michigan. She valued and kept her early friendships. Baking was easy for her and she was very good in the kitchen. I never tasted custard pie that was any better- even my grandma Grace Anglin did not top her. After her husband died she spent alot more time with her sister Anna -then moved in with her to care for her through her illness. Anna was so lucky to have her there so she did not have to endure the nursing home. We will all miss her sharp opinions and sometimes salty observances.
Wednesday, August 24, 2011
Happy B-day
Wednesday, July 27, 2011
Movies in the 30s and early 40s
Anyway, it seems that in the 1930s movie magazines were in their prime. Girls would collect them and cut out their favorites to post on their walls or paste in scrap books. I remember passing countless hours looking through Aunt Bette Anglin's detailed movie scrapbooks when I was a girl. She had assembled these as an early teen, I am sure, and they ended up at Grandma Graces for some reason. The movies depicted were no longer seen except maybe at an outdoor free show. In any event, some of these movies are considered classics now and are shown on TV.
My favorite of all time is "Bringing up Baby". Silly funny shtick with Katherine Hepburn and Cary Grant. My favorite John Wayne era movie is not a western but "The Quiet Man" with a way younger than she looked, Maureen O'Hara.
In Aunt Anna Rapp.s seventeen year old diary written in the 1940s mentions a lot of movies she went to mostly on week-ends. Here is a short list: Bittersweet with Janette McDonald and Nelson Eddy, Love Thy Neighbor with Jack Benny and, Fred Allen and Mary Martin, Kitty Foyle with Ginger Rogers and Dennis Morgan, Andy Hardy- Private Secretary with Andy Rooney, Penny Serenade with Irene Dunne and Cary Grant. I have seen that one on TV and remember it was a very melodramatic.
Thursday, July 21, 2011
Marge writes about friends, tasks and making do.
There are so many things that were done as commonplace then and so foreign to the young today. You can just not imagine all the jobs to be done. The butter to paddle before the churn came. The lamps to fill, the wicks to trim, and the globes to clean. there were always socks to darn, shoestrings broken and, yes, often cardboard insoles to use until shoes could be found. I was so blessed with hand-me downs from cousin Marilyn, who lived in Minneapolis. she had lovely things, and mother would remodel to fit me. I did not really know Marilyn then., except that she was Aunt Ethel's grand daughter.
G.G. had what was called in summer her "good dress", made of washable cotton. When it was showing some wear, it became her everyday dress. And as it became more used, the remaining good parts were made into and apron and what was yet to be salvaged cut into quilt blocks. The cycle was repeated over and over. Button, snaps, edt. were removed for other use. Men's clothing was recycled into pants, knickers,and jackets for young boys. I loved to go through the button box and often thought sewing might be fun. I never experienced that joy until many years later. I'm sure the game- button button who's got the button must have been born at some mother's knee. Mending for THE BOYS surely never got caught up. Live-in grandmothers were a blessing for this. Shoes were few and so-called everyday shoes always used when required. Sunday shoes were just that, until retired to the former as needed.
The list of jobs to take care of is beyond belief. The garden, the canning, drying the corn, and daily tasks to perform. Likely there were times when G.G. was pregnant, diapering another, chasing several. She had super strength, physical and mental. She loved the arts and I am sure that helped. She was known for her flair for speaking readings.
Life on the farm had it's many blessings, but oh, the hard work. Animals to be born and nurtured, children sick, overworked husbands.
Why must I reach old age to realize the sacrifices made for me.
What a sad day when Uncle Don's wife and son died. What heartbreak engulfed the family and friends, the young husband shaken beyond belief.
Having two uncles in World War 2 filled me with pride and untold fear all at once. I pray all who read this will never need to experience the devastating news that my Grandparents received on that tragic day in December.
THE BOYS had a great capacity to love. They showered me with it. Bill taught me to drive even though I think the real reason was so he and Wilma could smooch. The lesson was brief about the ditch on the right, and go slow. They gave money they did not have, lodging they could not spare, aid in obtaining a job (that I walked out on) and the list goes on. I received advice and was too dumb to accept , loved me like a sister and tolerated me like a spoiled niece.
Appreciate your family ties and keep them tied.
It has been said that Grace Anglin thought her BOYS could do no wrong. You know she was right.
July 27, 2000-----------Marge Anglin Gast
More about Marge's farm days
The granddaddy of all smells was Ferd Fribley's mint fields.
After working the onions, we would grab the soap, jump into ole Avery(topless vehicle,actually i think it was 4 tires and not much else) -off to Huffman lake to clean up. Some days if you got too hot, you might get to jump in the horse tank.
Ironing was a big job and was done with irons heated on the cook stove., which were also used to warm your feather bed in the winter. Sometimes I got to iron handkerchiefs, or sugar sacks made into dishtowels.
I loved to go in the store building, there seemed to always be something in there I had not noticed before.
G.G. was very busy with her church and D.W. was an ever present figure of authority. They took their Christian teachings very serious. We went to Millwood Chapel and sometimes to Stony Point. We got on our knees to pray, and to pass the sermon time away I made dolls in a hammock with a handkerchief, which had a corner for your gum if need be. There were lots of wonderful people at Millwood. I could name so many but some stand out. Walter Thomas who was the only man good enough for my mother to marry. Dallas Hartzell who could really play the piano if you needed to hear it. Lilli Harmon to teach everybody to sing, except the two Mary Joaneses Orlie's Mary and Henry's Mary. They already knew how to sing.
Rev. John Hartman kept you at attention with his sermon deliveries I will never forget staying with he and Lilly. Going to church , prayer meeting , ect was never discussed as to whether you were going or not. You knew you were going.
In the winter it seemed that we always returned home to the sickly smell of sulpher burning. So you got your chest greased, a warm flannel rag over it and upstairs fast to escape the smell that was to save us from ills.
D.W. had a very large dictionary on a table that always interested me, but I know I was not to touch it. I can still see the table with two shelves, likely made at Atwood school. I can still see so many things-a picture of a baby in a doctors bag, a pretty vase with flowers embossed. I never wanted anything changed. G.G. said don't you want me to ever have anything new???
Animals had names for the most part, but I cannot remember a single cats name. The mules were Jack and Jen. The dog Dolly was beloved by all. As the story goes Dolly killed 42 rats in one day---what a dog!
Wednesday, July 20, 2011
More Marge-flowers, hucksters, meal-times ect.
It seemed that I was either waiting for the Huckster Wagons or the mail man a lot. Shorty Marsh was generous to me and the whole scene of everything from long drawers was exciting. You cannot imagine the variety of things that the rural household might need , from thread to "anything else that you could not raise, can, smoke or have in your cellar.
The mailman was not so much fun but Orin Miller was so nice, and it was fun to take the mail to G.G. and D.W. In the fall, waiting on the mail was made more lovely with a fence sporting bittersweet.
G.G. would let me walk to Community Center, usually to get an all day sucker. I enjoyed some people on the way. Tillie Chivington and McCuens were so nice to me but the prize was Viv Huffman. She liked to talk about Homer. I think that Homer may have been adopted , and oh, how she loved him. I spent lots of time on her front porch. She loved life and had a laugh you could never forget.
Sometimes I would walk to Alma Zent's house. I called her Elme, and she was so kind to me. Her husband, Bill, teased me and I was afraid of him. I think I was there with G.G. the night he died.
It is hard to beleive that I was allowed to walk on gravel roads. Todayit is hardly safe for your children to play in their own yards.
G.G. has a little social life and the affairs of the church were uppermost on the schedule. Often I could go with her to Ladies Aid, ect. It was not often that you went to see a neighbor, but if needed, you went. G.G. helped deliver the Swartz twins. All the Amish that I knew in my childhood were wery special people.
G.G. made bread and lots of it. She had a long board that came out from under the upper cupboards and it held lots of loaves. When you came home from school you knew what aromas would be waiting. On Monday ,wash day, we had beans and what she called light rolls. Oh how I wish you could have had that pleasure. You just cannot imagine how tiring to mix and knead that amount of bread for such a large family plus who ever they invited. She was so happy when she was able to have a machine to help with that chore.
Certain foods were stored in the south room upstairs. Kraut, dill pickles and some staples. Don's drawings were there too, and not to be touched.
Meal time was pretty big, with lots of food., hotcakes she made on a special little griddle, that you could flip over and use the other side. Fried potatoes, eggs and meat too- all of this to do after she was up, dressed, had the pots emptied , cook stove going, and much more I am sure.
D.W. drove the school bus after milking, and other chores. Everyone was at the table and there were devotions and not too short. Some in later years were supplied by Suze and Marg. D.W. always said the same blessing (something about the up-building of our bodies). Goodness knows someone had to help with the building of those bodies. The cook stove had a reservior that had to be filled for warm water needs. The Sat. bath was something all endured whether dirty or not. Being clean for church was very important.
Tuesday, July 19, 2011
Marge cont. Stone house,windmill,privy,trees ect.
About the only eggs that I liked to gather was Easter eggs. Oh what a lot of eggs were colored and hidden. Easter was such a wonderful day, and how tired G.G. must have been. Family gatherings were large and food always seemed to be delicious and plentiful. If memory serves me right, I think that on one such occasion Uncle Dal had Army rations for his dinner , as punishment for his lack of correspondence to his brothers serving their country.
G.G. seemed to have an unspoken rule that THE BOYS should come on Sundays. I marvel at THE BOYS obedience through the years.
There were trees on the farm that I recall and impacted my kid-hood. Mulberry trees may have fruit for some humans, but it seemed like the birds won out. Poor G.G. who had to deal with the fly-over on the laundry.
There was a catalpa tree near the end of the drive with very big leaves and very big worms. I don't recall D.W. ever fishing, but others enjoyed the worms. There were pine trees of some size in the yard and they would not be of any significance, except that o a nite of hide and seek A.J. Rusher shot a bead of urine on me. I am sure I let it be known to all guests that were attending Dal and Doris' wedding shower.
Sunday, July 17, 2011
Marge Anglin Gast ...continued
Marge Anglin Gast wrote Anglin farm memories.
I found an essay that my cousin, Marge, wrote back in 2000. It is very important Anglin reflections that I wanted to copy here before but had accidently buried in a stack of papers.
Here is the first installment:
TO ALL OF YOU WHO PROUDLY RECALL EXPERIENCES ON THE FARM WHICH STILL STANDS, SHARE YOUR THOUGHTS, AND WHO KNOWS WHAT PLEASURE WE MAY HAVE IN STORE FOR US. By Marge Anglin Gast
D.W. & G.G
I guess there is no place to start, but summer is here and I will tell you how G.G (Grandma Grace) tried to keep me cool, likely also to keep me quiet or better yet asleep. She hung wet sheets over the screen facing the North, and if I would lay on the floor, perhaps a slight breeze would do the trick. The Anglins were floor sleepers and THE BOYS could be instantly asleep or instantly awake at D. W.'s (Daddy Wash) demand.
Thrashing day was a big event on the farm and I am sure G.G. did not need any help from me. Everything about threshing was big. Big machines, big meals, big aprons, big men with big appetites. The fellowship of the days toil surely must have kindled lasting friendships. Being a kid and spoiled what fun to get in the bins and have a rush of grain flow around me. Oh that you could have had that experience. That smell of rye and wheat, so fresh you had to eat some of it on the spot.
When I think of the many fun yet simple games we played I am reduced to tears. Only THE BOYS (two now) can fill you in on Goulah??? which was played north of the barn. Inside games were hide the thimble and fist-off. For more dangerous action we swung on a large rope from the east side of the barn way out the door!
Putting hay in the barn was work, but it seemed like fun to me. Talk about smells , hay is so wonderful. Actually I did not do any work except dusting, which I still hate. I was allowed to scrape some casing on butchering day but I had instructions on how to do it chisled in my brain.
Butchering day did have some excitment, but I hated killing the animal. Yet I had no trouble eating the good fried side meat. I was never bothered about killing chickens for Sunday dinner . It had to be done and I don't care for live ones. .....to be continued.
Friday, July 8, 2011
Summer in full swing
He has said he would in the past and absolutely forgotten the words. Very un-Glen like . It's brutal out there at this age. Seems I thought the same thing as a teen. Oh well , now, I just want to dance.
I taught a lot of lanky teen boys to dance in my early teen years. After I met my college boy, that stopped. He put up with a lot of teen hops and rainbow dances just to please me. Later we would go to Rochester to see the Big Bands still touring the country. We danced to Stan Kenton, some band that claimed to be the Glenn Miller band, and Ray Anthony who sounded like the real Glenn Miller Band. That was a special night. It was beautiful there at The Colonial Gardens on Lake Manatau.
The front of the building had white pillars all the way across. The lake side of the building had a pillar supported balcony that spanned it. I think it was when they were playing " Moonlight Serenade" that Glen escorted me out to see the moon's reflection on the water. Yes that is where he popped the question -down on one knee. Too perfect, I know but that was the way it was. I don't even think he knew that that is where my father purposed to my mother while listening to Hoagy Carmichael's " Stardust".
You can quit gaggin' - that is enough of the Long side for now
Thursday, July 7, 2011
Aunt Anna's Sweet Sixteen/Seventeen Diary cont.
She did get a job that summer keeping house in a vacation cottage on Hudson lake over by New Carlyle, In. They must have been friends of the family because they treated her like family although she was working nonstop for them and got paid. Probably not much.
Tuesday, July 5, 2011
Aunt Anna's Sweet Sixteen/Seventeen Diary
Digging for more Rapp writings we found Aunt Anna's Diary. She talks about how much fun her friends are and how "swell" her junior year of high school is turning out to be. Although the circumstances of her life are not ideal at that time she is making the best of everything. Her mother and big sister,(my mother) have died. Her father and new bride are living in Rochester, In. and Fort Wayne, but she is boarding with people in Burket to finish out her high school career.
I may change some punctuation and spelling but that is all. Starting with the January 1, 1941 she has filled almost all the pages of that year. ":
Dear Diary, Resolutions I have made; Do not swear, Do not speak bad about others. Lose weight. Got up at 7:15. School. Husted's father died. I am teaching shorthand this week. Went to basketball practice. Bob Dugly was here and we played cards and had fun. Wanda E. was down . Messed around with "Corny Dorany" Saw Count. To bed 12:00."
At that time she is boarding with the Erwin or Ewert family -helping with house work and child care.
Some of her friends have funny names and some of the things they do are typical but interesting.
I will write some of the more interesting later.
Saturday, July 2, 2011
Early August
I was looking through some Rapp letters Count gave me a couple of years ago, yesterday. That is when I came across this neat little post card written by my mother, Mary Rapp Anglin, to her mom and dad who were on a fishing trip. The card was addressed % G.W. Wise, Arbutus Lake in Michigan. It was dated exactly one week before I was born.
In very small and straight script she wrote:
Dear Folks, the boys are getting ready for market today. Us girls have 2 hired hands to get dinner for. I canned some pickles and plumbs for you yesterday and went to the Doctor in the afternoon.Dr. Baum sent for me. I guess he (there is a word missing here)that it was all over with. Ina Mae and Anna are feeling frisky. Wayne is about O.K. again and Kaye Donn's cold is a little better this morning. Glad to hear you are getting lots of fish to eat-wish we had some here. There is an ice cream social at the church tonight. The kids are all going. Ina Mae and Anna said tell you to have a good time and don't worry about anything. Let us hear from you. Lots of love, Mary
Monday, June 27, 2011
Hangin' on to June by my garden caked fingernails
One of the fun things I remember about some of the summer days I stayed with her and Daddy Wash at the farm was the Ladies Aid Society meeting. There were many but the one I remember most was in June when I was ten or eleven. The ladies had decided to stage a "mock wedding" and Gramma Grace had volunteered to host it at her house. I was given responsibility for getting the decorations and music around. The funny part was that the entire wedding party and guests were ladies ( is that the opposite of drag?). The ladies portraying guys-groom, best man, minister were wearing someone's best suit; there were roars of laughter when they appeared in the parlor. I think I found the veil (lace curtain) for the bride. The decorations were white paper streamers and bells. There were plenty of roses for the bride's bouquet. I picked from several bushes. My favorite was a double powder puff pink located immediately off the front porch . They perfumed the entire house. Music was contemporary for the day; "Because"and "Always". It was a formidable task keeping the wedding party and the guests in line because they were all laughing so hard it was like they were on drugs or something . You can be sure that was an impossibility!!!!
Monday, June 20, 2011
June was for Anglin family strawberry festivals
A couple of the aunts would have been stirring up ice cream to be distributed between three or four huge hand crank freezers. there was a running argument about which ice cream (always vanilla) recipe was best -the one made with eggs and cooked like a custard first or the one made with rennet, a natural thickener. I won't tell where rennet comes from. Once in a while they would use both.
Then the men were called in and things got real interesting. There would be an unspoken challenge to get the first freezer finished. Of course Uncle Dal would usually win because he was the first to hook up the crank to the jacked up wheel of his car. The bung hole on the freezer had to be watched closely to make sure the salt did not plug it and cause the water to get onto the lid which could ruin that freezer of ice cream.
Since I was the only one staying over most nights breakfast would be strawberries and melted ice cream on my cereal. YUM!!!!
Monday, April 25, 2011
Rain, Rain Go Away
We celebrated Easter all day yesterday with a little nap in the middle. Hersh (Rainwater) made it in for the big ham event about 6:30 p.m. Son, Chris Long, did most of the food after being up into the wee hours of the night with band job and church.
Uncke Jack Anglin was very happy in church yesterday because his kids and cousin Dave Anglin from Fort Wayne were there and stayed for dinner.
I was out to see Count last week and she told me more about life on the farm where she grew to a teen. The upstairs "dorm style " room was never finished beyond the studs. The boys- Wayne, Herm and Doyle slept on one side of the big chimney and the girls -Mary, Count and Anna on the other side until you know, PUBERTY. Then a small civilized room was made up for the girls downstairs. Count could draw a detailed chart of exact placement of every room in that house right now Talking about it seems to bring her comfort.
Monday, April 11, 2011
Garden time for Count
Tuesday, April 5, 2011
New and old times
Grace called to tell me that the Dr. said that she has shingles. I hope the meds take care of it.
I talked to my daughter Cecily to get permission to copy an essay that she wrote when she was seven or eight. Here it is: Titled MY DOG BITE
I was walking with my girlfriend (no names so to protect the inocent) when she usherd me into the neibor house. I didnt know they even had a dog, but presto before I knew it the dog had jumped up on me and scratched me. I sat down on the couch and the dog, named RASTISS, jumped up and licked me very hard. one of the boys called him away and he went immediately.
Mrs. X as I will call her, called me over to look at my scratches, I didnt think he did anything but scratch me. We soon left and I showed my girlfriend what he did to my back. She was alarmed and said it was bleeding. She took me home and her mother put aniseptic on it. Soon the Mr. came and said it was a mere nip and took me home.
Mother was upset because it broke the skin, but thought it was alright. Later when she was examining it carefully she got worried because it was a hole. Dad was mad because he did not hear about it until 10:00 because we forgot. The next day I had to get a tetanus shot. If the dog was a stray I would half to get 21 rabies shots. But it was a house dog. They half to keep it pened up regardless as a state law, and if it gets sick or dies of rabies within ten days I will at least have 5 rabies shots. I'm sure looking foreword to NO more dog bites. THE END
Wednesday, March 30, 2011
Spring is supposed to be where?
More about the Rapps here:
Aunt Count gave me a peek into uncle Wayne's personality. When everyone else was playing cards around the kitchen table at night he would be reading a book. He felt responsibility at a young age, and he was good with kids in her estimation. When his mother was having her first a heart attack he sent one of the older kids for help at the nearest neighbors while he stayed by her side and rubbed her arms because she was in great pain.
Sunday, March 27, 2011
Rapp Family
I went to see Aunt Count this last week and she was telling me some things about her brother Wayne. She said she was closest to him and he is the one who gave her the name "Countess de Grasse. He read constantly so he may have gotten the name from one of the books he was reading.
She explained that he bossed most of the farm work while Grandpa Earl worked for his dad in the garage and auto business. I would like to know more about that.